Papa is doing good. I wasn't able to go to down to the hospital until after work Friday night. I was anxious to be there and thankful that they let visitors in that late. It was good to see Mom, although she was very sleepy. She was planning on going home with Teryn so she could get some good rest. Since I was the last one to be there with him, I stayed for quite awhile just wanting to be with him. I was grateful to go and visit him for the first time by myself so no one would see me cry. It's hard to see him in pain with all of his wires and tubes but he looked much better than I thought he would. Memories of seeing my Mom after her surgery were swirling in my head. She was very bloated and swollen it was shocking. Papa wasn't and it was a relief.
Understandably, he was
very sleepy after the surgery. So sleepy that he couldn't wake up enough to be ex-tubated. Hours passed and visitors came and went without much luck. Many jokes were cracked of course. Everything from Sleepy Beauty - Sleepy, but not beautiful (a la James) to the fact that he is just so tired because he never gets enough sleep so he was making up for it. The darling nurse Linda teased that he was a cheap date - a little went a long way for him.
I watched Linda as she fussed over him making sure his wires were all tidy, rubbing his back to get the circulation going, washing his hair and combing it for him, fluffing pillows, readjusting his position and tidying up the room all the while humming "I Need Thee Every Hour" which was Papa's mom Grandma Reta's favorite him. She was such a southern doll. Born in Georgia and had the accent and mannerisms that are so charming to me.
They fussed and fussed trying to help him to wake up. I stayed through three attempts before I worried that I would be too tired to get home safely. It was hard to leave him without family being so close to finally waking up. Thankfully, Teryn lives the closest and was there when he was ex-tubated after 3am. One of the first things he asked for was Mom.
By the end of today, he was released from ICU, had most of his wires and tubes pulled out, was sitting up and had even gone for a walk and was talking more coherently. All is looking good!
The next few weeks will be hard for him as he heals. Hard for Mom to help take care of him and NOT ask him to do things. That I think, would be next to impossible because he is always doing things for her. It's just how he is, always serving. :)
I am so grateful for prayers answered, faith renewed, skills of the doctor and fantastic nurses. I am grateful for my family for pulling together to let everyone know updates and visiting him as often as they could. And most of all, I am grateful for my Papa.